Bad news – you’re not indispensible as you thought

Posted by Arjun Moorthy

Jun 4, 2011 6:14:00 AM

One of the most surprising, if pathetically humbling, realizations I’ve had is that every time I’ve left a company it continued to run just fine without me.  Indeed, the very day I announced my resignation at my last three jobs and provided two weeks’ notice, I’ve always noticed an immediate drop in email correspondence and an implicit meeting cadence as though I am no longer working there.

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The idea that I am indispensible is arrogant to begin with but perhaps not so unusual in light of popular books like Seth Godin’s Linchpin.  In spite of my hard work and generally strong job evaluations/promotions etc, perhaps I never became the linchpin as Seth advises because I was not artful enough.  My own hypothesis is that I didn’t become that indispensible because:

  1. over time my knowledge was diffused throughout the firm as I like sharing knowledge on principle
  2. there are very few people, perhaps even zero, who are truly visionary without whom a company would fail.

On #2 I can think of Steve Jobs and certainly a portion of the world believes that Apple will suffer without his presence.  That is a possibility but it implies that he’s lousy at leadership development and has actually built nothing sustainable.  I doubt this idea and believe that unlike the first time he left Apple (when he was really young and immature as a manager) he has recruited and built a few capable managers and perhaps even visionaries that can carry on his work.  It may not be exactly as Steve would do but Apple might very well turn out different and even better products someday.

Still, an underlying idea in Godin’s book, and to some degree in much of popular western culture, is that of the importance of ego – of “me” - the idea that each of us is unique and should find a way to shine, sometimes at the expense of others. But two recent articles from highly respected writers suggest that this might be unwise. 

The first is from NYT columnist David Brooks in a thought provoking piece that suggests “the purpose in life is not to find yourself. It’s to lose yourself.”  Brooks refers in his article to another favourite writer of mine, Atul Gawande, a prolific physician and journalist for The New Yorker writer who recently delivered a powerful and unorthodox commencement speech at my alma mater Stanford urging doctors to learn to work in teams rather than as “cowboys” because the future of medicine – both in patient care quality and in affordable healthcare – depended on this idea.

Brooks and Gawande are not suggesting that individuals are not special, or that we should accept mediocrity and just aim to be average.  Rather their career advice is to caution us against the idea that “I am so unique and only I can do something.”  I think such humility will help us be better employees, managers and general team players.


* apologies for double negative in title but it just seemed to fit best

Topics: career advice, mentoring

Career Advice I Wish I Knew Earlier 

Hello.  I started this blog to distribute some of the best career advice I have been given over the many jobs I've had.  I've been fortunate to work for and with some great bosses like Brian Halligan, Francis DeSouzaNancy Kamei, and Rick Roberge, and some unique companies, like The Boston Consulting Group, that invest heavily in making each employee a success even after leaving the firm.

The advice and training I received here stands in contrast to my experiences with some not-so-great bosses and companies I've also worked for.  I'm continualy amazed at how valuable good advice has been in my career so I hope to pass on the good advice, and insights from mistakes I've made, via this blog. 

Thanks in advance for your comments, particularly when you can improve upon the ideas posted.

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